July 23rd, 2011

Вопрос дня: Дружеский секс

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?

Секс по дружбе для меня не приемлем.
Хорошо, давайте подумаем логически - зачем?
В нашем обществе , насколько я знаю, люди имеют свойство встречаться с другими людьми, а там уже без проблем.
Секс по дружбе - это значит дружбе конец, как по мне..
Я не "поебаться просто так" девочка...

Writer's Block: FWB

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?

Well, the obvious one would be someone would develop feelings and get their heartbroken.I think it depends on the person.  Some people can have causal sex w/o getting attached and that is fine.

FWB are complicated. Sex changes things, you can never really go back to the way things where before. From my experience and from what I have heard from others, FWB do not work out. Someone always gets hurt. For a FWB to be successful, everyone needs to be on the same page.

Вопрос дня: Дружеский секс

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?

Недостаток очевиден: одному надоест раньше, чем другому. А мирно разойтись не получится.
Надо дорожить друзьями. Как говорится, dont hit on your existing friends!

Writer's Block: FWB

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?


I'm not even close to being a super clean freak but just the thought of not being with some one exclusively grosses me out. I'd be wondering what other creatures he was "friends with benefits" with and what diseases were between his legs and their legs!! Blah!

STDs scare me.

Вопрос дня: Наркотики - это модно?

Существует ли мода на наркотики?

модно все, что выгодно. работает как схема  "запретного плода", так и скрытая пропаганда. механизм давно запущен. среднестатистический гражданин никогда не узнает ни о жертвах, ни о суммах)))
Сочи-2015

Вопрос дня: Дружеский секс

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?


Если кто-нибудь понял основную мысль - пусть поделится своими соображениями:))

Это что же получается? Вася, ты мне друг? Ну, друг. Вась, а Вась, давай подружим хм... половыми органами?:)))

Так, преимущества, непонятки, от чего отталкиваться, то есть брать за основу секс по вражде чтоли?

А минусы/недостатки - они в любом месте могут присутствовать:)) главное, наверное, их научиться: избегать, исправлять, искоренять, ну, а если на любителя, то и прививать:))

Странный вопрос, может читаю мало, телевизор не смотрю, что это за форма такая? Дружеский секс?

Групповой - понятно, по любви - естественно, за деньги - прогрессивно, по нелюбви - долг превыше всего! А как это по дружбе то???

WalterSeras by dasaod

Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?


Barbara Havers from Elizabeth George's Inspector Lynley mysteries. She's dumpy, addicted to junk food, wears old clothes in bad repair, has few friends, and her main redeeming quality is that she's sporadically good at her job. (And she's a decent and caring person, I have to say that much too.)

If she were Jewish, addicted to the internet and lived in California instead of London she'd be me.

I wish she were real though.

I have no idea what she's like in the TV version. Apparently better-looking, at least.

Writer's Block: FWB

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?

That unknowingly to you, he falls in love with you. Then one day when you've had enough of the "fooling around" and you wanna branch out and meet other guys, he starts acting all weird, jealous, possessive and is KILLING your game. Finally you confront him and you are completely taken off guard. You have no idea what to say except, "I'm sorry I don't feel that way about you, I had no idea what I was doing to you." And you feel like shit because it was all fine when you thought it was mutual using, but turns out you were just using him. From then on your friendship is ruined. Furthermore, when you finally have a boyfriend, he still is trying to get you to fool around. And then when he gets a girlfriend, he completely decides to ignore you. Those are the cons. It just doesn't work. Don't try it.
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Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?

I like the movie Scarface and the character of Tony Montana played by Al Pacino. It's a man, I mean Montana, who know what he wants. Nothing can stop him from reaching his goals. He is violent but at the same time he has a lot of respect to others and he's not a person who can betray. Pacino played this character just great. His temperament is unique. Nevertheless it is an old movie, I've never seen so far something in this genre that can impress me so much.

Day journal:
I haven't write yesterday and the day before yesterday because I was very tired, I guess =)
The day before yesterday and the previous day, I swam in the pool 1.6 km each day. So, it is more than 3 km in overal amount. My body isn't used to such load, so it has ached for the last two days.
Yesterday, I ordered new MacBook Pro. I expect it with impatience. I want to get it soon. It is really good notebook (2.2 GHz quad-core, 1 Gb video memory, 8 Gb memory and so on). Mmm. I'm very impatient =))
Today was usual day. So, I went to classes. After classes, I had some day nap, even not nap but sleep. After that I have been watching the movie James Bond. Then I have been doing english exercises. Now, I'm going to study further. So, good productive day =)
Вильчевский Александр Викторович

Вопрос дня: Дружеский секс

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?
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Вопрос дня: Дружеский секс

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?

Есть два примера: 1.личный опыт: плюсов нет, а вот минусов только один - конец дружбе. и это очень большой минус. пытались все забыть и дальше общаться, но не смогли. друг был очень хороший.
2. а вот подруга и друг (другой друг) поженились и ростят ребенка, живут очень дружно))
Gromit

Quartier des écrivains : Saints and sinners

If you found a wad of cash on the ground, would you keep it? Donate it? Take it to the police?

Ah that's a question that we often ponder over at work.  What would we do if we came across a €100 or a €200 note on the ground?  Would we hand it in like a good citizen, or would we keep it?

Personally, I've always said that I would hand it in... But, would I?  I think if I found it and say it had fallen out of a wallet and the wallet itself was nearby, then I would definately hand it in.  But well, if I found €200... I think its one of those things you can't answer about until you're confronted with it.
кошкарыжая

Вопрос дня: Дружеский секс

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?

Ну это как " брюки превращаются, брюки превращаются, превращаются брюки... в элегантные шорты". На мой взгляд. Так затянет, по самое " ни хочу другого, хочу этого!" А он продолжает по-дружески относиться к тебе. А это и интерес к твоим увлечениям-проявлениям, и какая-никакая забота, и общение не в напряг, и нетребовательность, и не спрос. Это такой кайф, который исчезает ( зачастую) в " любви-любви"...А потом он встретит свою мечту. И ты просто обломаешься. Будет больно-больно.

Вопрос дня: И жили они долго и счастливо

What's Harry going to do now that the series is over?

Рэдклиффу пора заняться чем-то совсем иным, очень долго ему придется отходить от образа волшебника, а самому Гарри - затеряться где-то на верхних книжных полках. Я ничего не имею против  истории о Потере, но за все эти годы, она успела надоесть.
Pantiesssss ~

Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?


I'm flattering myself with the answer but.... Chihiro from "Spirited Away". I often see myself as s spoiled, selfish little girl, sheltered from most of the world and used to having things her way. At times though, I become more of "Sen" who has to grow up and do things she doesn't want to, or knows she needs to do because of one reason or another.

In the movie, you see how Chihiro transforms from her former self to a more matured version by the end of it. I hope to do the same over the course of my life. :]

Кризис и дурацкий вопрос.

Кризис, кризис, кризис.
Только и слышишь это слово.
Черт с ним, с экономикой.
Нам с богатеями не тягаться.

Меня больше волнует кризис в моей собственной жизни.
Хорошо, что я завел этот дневник, можно поделиться и хоть немного, но загасить костер.
Иначе он все разгорается и разгорается.

Женщины, если Вы чувствуете, что у Вашего мужчины шатания и брожения, не надо оставлять его одного, не уезжайте в командировки, пожалуйста.

А еще вопросы в ЖЖ задают какие. Разве можно задавать такие вопросы мужику, у которого жена в командировке и который единожды изменив, не знает, что с этим делать теперь.

А тут вообще маразм: дружеский секс. Нет, Вы мне скажите, разве может быть дружба после секса без любви?
Или я совсем темный?

Вопрос дня: Дружеский секс:

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?

Вопрос дня: Дружеский секс

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?

Совместить секс и дружбу нужно суметь. Ведь, как правило, глупые девочки имеют привычку влюбляться после секса. Ведь он и так другом был - значит изначально хорош во всем. А тут еще и секс... А если еще и хороший... И мысли начинают дурацкие появляться "Ой, а это, наверное, МММ... А я не замечала..." и пошло-поехало...
А умные мальчики тем временем по-другому думают. "Ой, как круто! Она исчо и спать со мной будет! Будет к кому податься, если Машка из дома выгонит.."
Как бы не так! Не приемлет боле твоя экс-подруга никаких Машек-Дашек. Потому как после секса в голове женщины щелкает маячок, отвечающий за привязанность.
Вот и получается - и секса нет, и дружба развалилась..
Ну бывают исключения, конечно. И хэппи-енды, наверное, тоже бывают. Но по мне так странно все это. И нелогично.
У меня вот другое исключение - сумела-таки совместить и секс и дружбу. И про телочек других спокойно слушаю. Хотя я к этому больше года шла - сама с собой боролась. И чего мне стоило не подать виду, что ревную до дрожи... А еще наши отношения спас тот факт, что не свободны оба. Женат. Ну и я вроде как не одинока. Было время, что думалось - вот брошу все и в любви ему кааааак признаюсь! И будет мне счастье! Или несчастье, хрен знает. Но удержалась. А сейчас думаю - вот молодец-то! Потому как был бы моим - очень скоро на хрен не нужен. Ведь у каждого свои недостатки. А он идеален до той поры, пока не перестанет просто другом быть.
Сейчас я - хэппи. Вроде и друг рядом, и секс хороший. Можно не бояться напиваться вдвоем опять-таки :) Заранее же знаешь, что случится:) Рассказать могу что угодно, на мужика своего пожаловаться... И не ревную уже совсем. И понимаю - он очень дорогой и близкий мне человек. Но в качестве спутника жизни - не надо мне его. Пусть лучше остается идеальным мужчиной в моей жизни. И идеальность его в том, что не я его терплю 24 часа  в сутки. А вижу тогда, когда хочется. И скучаю.

А в любви я ему все-таки призналась:) Только после его признания. И как бы это глупо ни звучало - мы правда любим друг друга. По-дружески.
Просто такая странная любовь :)
качели

Вопрос дня: Дружеский секс

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?

Приемущества - от слова прием? А какой именно - в посольстве, дзю-до, дзю-после, на грудь...?
По существу же вопроса, вот (не мое, автор неизвестен):

Давай останемся друзьями
Такой же бред как например
Собака ты мне надоела
Давай ты будешь мне котом!


Ну тут, правда, посложнее - кот, давай ты будешь еще и собакой.
Самое удивительное, что иногда получается!

Вопрос дня: Наркотики - это модно?

Существует ли мода на наркотики?

13 лет назад, когда меня волновал этот вопрос не по-детски (как вы понимаете сыну было 13 лет), он мне просто ответил, что мол, не волнуйся - сейчас это не модно. Я ему поверила, и нисколько не жалею об этом. Детям нужно доверять и быть с ними честными.
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Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?


Maybe... a strange hybrid of Kaylee Frye and River Tam from Serenity.

When I first watched Firefly & Serenity, during the 2007-2008 time period, I identified very strongly with River, and I even began to wonder if maybe there was something wrong with my amygdala, too.

Then there's Kaylee, a young woman of simple, sensuous pleasures. She loves everyone in her ship family. She is earthy, enjoys home (firefly) decorating, and knows the value of a ripe strawberry.

I will never be an extrovert like Kaylee, but otherwise we have quite a bit in common. I think (hope) that I will look much like her someday, with just a bit of River tucked away inside.

Writer's Block: No refunds

What is your biggest regret? Did you learn from it or does it still plague you?

My biggest regret would be dating the guy that took my virginity, I found out what being really hurt feels like too early in life. I also wish I never  dated him because I want to be a virgin so I can wait for the special one, sex is addicting.
  • bev19

Вопрос дня: Ошибки

What is your biggest regret? Did you learn from it or does it still plague you?

С вечера поссорились супруги,
Говорили много резких слов.
Сгоряча не поняли друг друга,
Напрочь позабыли про любовь.
Утром мужу на работу рано,
А на сердце — горечи печать.
За ночь глупость ссоры осознал он,
Подошел жену поцеловать.
Не спала, но все же притворилась,
Отвернула в сторону лицо.
В глубине обида затаилась,
Как удав, свернувшийся кольцом.
Дверь закрыл — ни слова на прощанье,
Со двора на окна посмотрел…
Если б они знали, если б знали,
Что ушел из дома насовсем.
А жена привычными делами,
Как всегда, своими занялась:
Детское бельишко постирала,
Борщ сварила, в доме прибралась.
Чистый пол, помытая посуда,
И с работы скоро муж придет. —
Я с ним разговаривать не буду,
Пусть прощенья просит, пусть поймет.
Гордость в сердце вздыбилась высоко: —
Первою к нему не подойду!
По ролям разыгрывалась ссора
В воспаленном дьяволом мозгу.
Шесть пробило, семь и пол — восьмого…
Неподвижна дверь, молчит порог.
И в тревоге что — то сердце ноет,
Где же задержаться так он мог?
Вдруг какой — то крик и суматоха,
Чей — то голос, плачущий навзрыд,
И соседский мальчуган Алеха
Крикнул запыхавшись: " В шахте взрыв!»
Взрыв. Совсем коротенькое слово,
Сердце будто в клочья порвало.
Нет, она к такому не готова!
Может, жив он, может, повезло.
И в слезах по улице бежала,
Вспоминая с болью прошлый день,
Как в обиде злилась и кричала,
Застилала разум злобы тень.
Заведенной куклой повторяла: —
Мой родной, о, только бы не ты.
Я б к твоим ногам сейчас упала,
Прошептав короткое " прости».
Им бы знать вчера, что будет завтра,
По-другому все могло бы быть.
Смерть, как вор, приходит, так внезапно,
Не оставив шанса долюбить.
Прогремит неумолимо грозно
Приговор. Его не изменить.
Исправлять ошибки слишком поздно,
С этой болью ей придется жить.
Люди, будьте к ближним своим, мягче,
относитесь с нежностью, добром
и не обижайте, а иначе можно горько каяться потом…

Writer's Block: Born again

If you were reincarnated as an animal, which would you choose to be in your next life, and why?

I'd be a cat, I LOVE cats. One day I will be the crazy cat lady I swear.  They're so elegant & lovable. People don't like cats because they don't listen to them, they're just smarter than dogs & do what they want. They're fucking amazing <3

Writer's Block: Going for the throat

Would you rather be a vampire or a vampire hunter, and why?

I would  be a vampire! Have you seen True Blood? Them vampires are amazing! They're so fast, & their libido can go for days! PLUS; have you seen how they just eat people, that's awesome. They cry blood but they don't have any blood in them. There's so much more, but they're  so awesome.
  • bev19

Вопрос дня: Ошибки

What is your biggest regret? Did you learn from it or does it still plague you?

С вечера поссорились супруги,
Говорили много резких слов.
Сгоряча не поняли друг друга,
Напрочь позабыли про любовь.
Утром мужу на работу рано,
А на сердце — горечи печать.
За ночь глупость ссоры осознал он,
Подошел жену поцеловать.
Не спала, но все же притворилась,
Отвернула в сторону лицо.
В глубине обида затаилась,
Как удав, свернувшийся кольцом.
Дверь закрыл — ни слова на прощанье,
Со двора на окна посмотрел…
Если б они знали, если б знали,
Что ушел из дома насовсем.
А жена привычными делами,
Как всегда, своими занялась:
Детское бельишко постирала,
Борщ сварила, в доме прибралась.
Чистый пол, помытая посуда,
И с работы скоро муж придет. —
Я с ним разговаривать не буду,
Пусть прощенья просит, пусть поймет.
Гордость в сердце вздыбилась высоко: —
Первою к нему не подойду!
По ролям разыгрывалась ссора
В воспаленном дьяволом мозгу.
Шесть пробило, семь и пол — восьмого…
Неподвижна дверь, молчит порог.
И в тревоге что — то сердце ноет,
Где же задержаться так он мог?
Вдруг какой — то крик и суматоха,
Чей — то голос, плачущий навзрыд,
И соседский мальчуган Алеха
Крикнул запыхавшись: " В шахте взрыв!»
Взрыв. Совсем коротенькое слово,
Сердце будто в клочья порвало.
Нет, она к такому не готова!
Может, жив он, может, повезло.
И в слезах по улице бежала,
Вспоминая с болью прошлый день,
Как в обиде злилась и кричала,
Застилала разум злобы тень.
Заведенной куклой повторяла: —
Мой родной, о, только бы не ты.
Я б к твоим ногам сейчас упала,
Прошептав короткое " прости».
Им бы знать вчера, что будет завтра,
По-другому все могло бы быть.
Смерть, как вор, приходит, так внезапно,
Не оставив шанса долюбить.
Прогремит неумолимо грозно
Приговор. Его не изменить.
Исправлять ошибки слишком поздно,
С этой болью ей придется жить.
Люди, будьте к ближним своим, мягче,
относитесь с нежностью, добром
и не обижайте, а иначе можно горько каяться потом…

Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?


I was very much like Mary Ann Spier from "The Babysitters Club" when I was a tween/teenager. We were both quiet and shy, and I just liked that she was so down to earth and sweet natured. Plus, I'm a natural brunette...I don't identify with blondes (except for Captain/Major/Lt. Colonel/Colonel Samantha Carter from "Stargate SG-1", of course!)

And while he is technically not a book character, there are Stargate SG-1 novelizations, and I identify best with Dr. Daniel Jackson (well, it was a movie at one time as well!). Both brunettes (though I dye my hair brown), both fast talkers, both intellectual and nerdy, and misunderstood by peers, though I didn't get ostracized by the academic community!
Remus DH2

Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?

Remus Lupin from Harry Potter of course. Aside from the whole werewolf thing obviously, he's so quiet, soft-spoken, meek, unassuming, and kind, and that is so me. Even from his very first appearances in Prisoner of Azkaban, I felt like I could identify with him. Then once we learn his story, I felt like I connected with him even more, because he's been through so much and he's lost so much.

I was feeling so alone when I first read that book. I didn't really have anyone to go to with what I was feeling, because EX had effectively isolated me from most of my friends and family, and he couldn't have cared less about what I was going through. When we first meet him, Remus is very much alone in the world, although for entirely different reasons, but I felt this kinship with him that I hadn't felt in a long time. I thought if anyone in the world could understand me, it was this character, fictional or not. For a period of time there, he was all I had. These books were all I had.

But no matter how awful things must have been for him, Remus keeps going, and he still remains true to himself. He doesn't let his circumstances affect him the way someone like Greyback must have. I could never adequately describe how influential that was on me at such a critical time in my life, just how much that helped me. It made me realize that just because some bad things had happened to me, I didn't have to let them define me. They're a part of me, yes, and they always will be, but they're by no means all I am. Just like Remus is a lot more than just a werewolf <3
ШОС, свобода, независимость, енот

Вопрос дня: Дружеский секс

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?

Единственный минус в этом - это возможность получить его в качестве уступки или одолжения, а также возможность спутать с чем-то более высоким.

Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?

I am Alice of Alice's Adventures in Wonderland. Ever since I was a child, I viewed the world with an odd perspective. It was my playground to allow me to imagine wonderful ideas and put them onto paper, using images or words.  I hold on to my childhood in odd ways, those I meet and cherish the most are the strangest people, and there are those that also hate me and I'm certain would be happy if the calling were 'Off with my head'. My curiosity for knowledge is always alive, and most of the times, it leads me to places I don't expect and into difficult situations. There are times where I want to give up, especially when there are problems too big and I become figuratively small and helpless. However, with the gentle nudge of an unexpected friendship or the guidance of a loved on, I can do anything.
Birdo

Writer's Block: Saints and sinners

If you found a wad of cash on the ground, would you keep it? Donate it? Take it to the police?


Typically, when I find things of such value, my first instinct is to seize it and make it mine. Almost always is the human mind driven instinctively by selfishness. Greed appeals to base needs.

Yet, something in me resists that urge. Overpowering the baser needs within me lies an element of altruism. Ultimately, it will win.

Aside from that, however, lies a question. Returning it is morally best, but how and to whom should I do it? Everyone would try to claim it!

I can't help but think that, failing obvious signs of ownership, keeping it and putting it toward good works would be best. The scenario leaves me with regrettably few options, none good.



And now, vodkabeforenoon, read the first letter from each sentence. Your turn.
  • lt32

Вопрос дня: Наркотики - это модно?

What is something you would never want to change about yourself?

Возможно, и мода. В моем городе это так и есть особенно среди молодых девочек, в частности спиды и марихуана. Начинается все с малого, сначала как тяга к запретам, а позже это зависимость, и плевать совсем, на то с чего все началось. Наркотики - это смерть.

Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?


If you mixed up Quequeg from Moby Dick with Capt Ahab, and then mixed in a touch of Marla Singer from Fight Club, and then added a dash of Charles Baudelaire and the tineist pinch of Nietzche, followed by a heaping pound of nonsense... that's me.

As for why? I haven't got thefaintest idea. It just, is, and I take it as it comes. :)

Joely

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?

Wow, well this is an easy one. Joel from Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. Everything about him is so much like me its uncanny. There was one line in the movie that I knew immediately after he said it that I would fall in love with it. He said "Why do I fall in love with every woman I see who shows me the least bit of attention?" He has a big heart and it shows. He's emotional and he's an intellectual. He went for someone completely opposite of him though, and although I don't try to, it's usually what I end up doing. When he came to the conclusion that "it was all going to be over soon," his reaction was to just "Enjoy it." I've always lived in the moment like that. I've had a few situations in my life when i stopped myself to say "Hey, enjoy this. Don't think about this ending." It happened when I was in North Carolina with Jordon that one summer and again last semester.

Clementine tells Joel that shes going to feel trapped and he just says "okay." He just willingly put himself in another position to be hurt again. Being that emotionally strong is something worth striving for.
НЗ

Вопрос дня: Дружеский секс

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?

Преимущества, я вам скажу, отнюдь не очевидны.
И, судя по всему, автор вопроса, может быть уже догадывается, что такое секс, но вот что такое дружба - уже вряд ли узнает...
Currently Me

Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?

Leticia Marisol Estrella Torrez.  From Felicia Luna Lemus's novel:  Trace Elements of Random Tea Parties.

I maintain that being a lesbian and Chicana has to be one of the hardest fucking combinations of shit God could ever have cursed me with.  This book explains it all.  I dunno if I'm so much exactly like the character, but I feel like if Leti was a real person, she would understand me better than anyone else.  There are some freaky similarities between us though.   La Llorona, working in a groom shop, her naivety with women, and her the battle between her value of traditions and her thirst for rebellion.... ugh... it's fucking my life.  I would never shave my head though.  Crazy bitch. xD


Lesbian grrrls enjoying the gritty splendors of Los Angeles are the protagonists of this edgy, exuberant debut novel. Leticia Marisol Estrella Torrez is a young woman in her early 20s valiantly trying to find her place in a world of queers living life on their own terms, even if it means breaking with the traditions of her past. Leti's conventional grandmother raised her to be a proper young Mexican-American woman, but Leti is seeking more excitement and freedom. With "shaved head and stomping boots, my adolescent dyke dick hard all the time," Leti crashes the dyke scene while treading more sedately around her grandmother and dreaming of Weeping Woman, a dangerous, seductive figure from Mexican folklore who haunted her childhood. As she careens through the hipster punk world of Southern California, Leti bounces from girlfriend to girlfriend, learning some valuable lessons the hard way. The enticing women she meets are described in fabulous, over-the-top prose: "My girl Edith: smarty-pants Mission District glamour homegrrrl moved down to Los Angeles on her leopard-print motorcycle." And then there is K, "candy heaven," who battles for Leti's heart along with the inscrutable shade of Weeping Woman. The sex is fun, rollicking and a little bit dangerous; the characters are young and guardedly optimistic. Lemus's enthusiasm bubbles over at times, and her flights of poetic fancy are sometimes wobbly ("taking time like starlight in slow motion"; "I got scared by how lemon-lime Otter Pop her toes could get"), but this is an intriguing novel sure to attract readers searching for something urban, lively and a bit different.

Вопрос дня: Дружеский секс

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?

Здесь все зависит от двух вещей. 
Первое - от того, как человек воспитан и что для него секс.
Второе - это верит ли человек в дружбу.
Если секс - это механических процесс и дружбы нет, то какие, нафик, последствия, кроме венерических? 

Вот сижу и думаю, а на кой чёрт массонам нужны ответы на этот вопрос?

Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?

I'm most like Ramona from the Beverly Cleary book "Ramona, the Pest" because I don't like it when people try to make me something that I'm not.  I don't like it when people see me as someone who is disabled, and Ramona didn't like it when her mother saw her as her little baby.  She even told her mom that she wasn't a baby.

Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?
If I had to put my life to a story character it would probably be V, from the movie 'V For Vendetta', but ask me on a good day and I might say Enis Delmar or Jack Twist from Brokebasck Mountain. Let's settle on a combination of the three; the cowboy's essance in V's fucked up body and tortured soul.

Вопрос дня: Дружеский секс

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?

Привычка. это самое убийствинное, что может быть. очень сложно найти по-настоящему большую любовь и хорошего человека, если тело ты отдаешь другому. Это я говорю о девушках. У парней все легче. Как говорится - прожевал - выплюнул, а мы, девушки. еще потом два дня вспоминаем, как да что было. Ненавижу нас девушек за это..
  • dmikra

Вопрос дня: Дружеский секс

Artistic

Writer's Block: FWB

>Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?



The obvious ones would be if your friend wanted to have a Relationship....whether with you or someone else, there would still be Problems

With you, well and good, and the normal issues with Relationships apply....except that, should the two of you break up, you have thus lost your friend with benefits

With someone else, you've already lost your friend with benefits as I doub't their partner would like having you as an additional part of their Relationship with your friend

Even in the event that they do start having a Relationship with someone other than you, and keep having you as a friend with benefits, then, the partner is just going to want to end the Relationship

Not to mention that you may well be the Jealous type, and start asking why your friend is in a Relationship with them, and not you....thus risking the end of your friendship, and thus your friends with benefits arrangement, anyway

Should some kind of Threesome be managed to be arranged, that could potentially work for awhile, but, even that could be rife with Problems

No, in that regard, should you happen to have a friend with benefits, you're probably better off biting the bullet and trying to have a full-on Relationship with said friend, rather than merely taking what you can get, when you can get it, in the hope that they don't start having a Relationship with someone else, instead

Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?

I am a mix between Jane Eyre and Cinderella. I often joke my life has been like Cinderellas, minus all the good bits. I really identify with Jane Eyre, how she felt she was treated as a child and finding refuge in reading. Then maturing into a sweet, calm, self-reliant young woman and teacher. She went through a lot of hardship but was never a damsel in distress she was strong without being harsh or too bold. 
Thane Looking Back

Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?

Personality wise, not appearances haha. She's super tall and I'm actually super short like Otani is xD
She's a typical girl, but at the same time she's not. She's overemotional and sometimes does the wrong thing. But she also likes to play video games and help people coordinate outfits.
Hiccup

Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?

I looked at him, and I saw myself.


I think a lot of people think I'm kidding around when I say I see a lot of myself in Hiccup, but... really, guys, I'm not. I swear, he's like my masculine, fictional double. Or twin. Or something. Our looks are similar, our mannerisms are the same, our social skills are worth naught, we both have a bum leg, and to make things just a little creepier still: I have Nordic blood in me somewhere far, far down along the line.

I could go into more detail, 'cause I've thought long and hard about how similar we are, but I'll leave it at that for now, 'cause it's too hot to think too much right now.
polar bear

Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?

Not so much like, but i can relate to Frances in Under the Tuscan Sun. She keeps getting crap handed to her and she just keeps overcoming and facing each problem while still being there for her friends. When she screams what more do you want from me..well i can relate to that at times.

Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?

Probably Marjane from the graphic novel and, subsiquently, film-'Persopolis.' Her intelligence and playfulness as well as her, not just refusal, but her pure inability to conform. She also gets depressed the same way I do and has an active imagination. I was also a bratty, clever and principaled child like her. I also for a brief period thought that I was the messiah (look: I was very young and weird, 'kay.) Even my mum, when she watched the film, said that Marjane reminded her of me. Two scenes in particular seemed very pertinent to my life: the first was when Marjane's mother was sitting in the car seething with anger while Marjane stared at her with nervous concern; trying to get up the courage to comfort her. The second was another car scene; when Marjane was speeding down the highway with her friends and they dare her to take her headscarf off.

Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why? I guess I would say That I am two chearcters mixed into one.I am Queen Mab(Played by Miranda Richardson in 1998 Merlin) Because of how she fights for what she believes in.Then I'm Lucy from the Chronicals of Narnia Books because like her I have unfailing faith when others seem to not believe.
meeee

Writer's Block: FWB

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?

1) They can go off and have sex with anyone and there's nothing you can do about it
2) You can't really rely on them
3) They can drop you in a heart beat
4) They can use the open relationship idea to start rumors
5) If the girl gets pregnant, the Father will most likely abandon them
6) STD's

Вопрос дня: Дружеский секс

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?

Дружеский секс в русском языке называется похотью. В отличии от секса по корысти, который называется блудом. Похоть по своей психосоматике напоминает наркоманию, алкоголизм, игроманию и склонность к маниакальности. Это и есть недостатки секса по дружбе. Минусы же названных недостатков состоят в том, что человек со временем теряет способности к творческому и созидательному труду и самореализации. Он становится дебилом или совком (филистером).

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Nerd

Writer's Block: FWB

What’s a bad habit that you really need to quit?


Ah, I would think they were pretty obvious too??????

The loss of friendship, the way everything changes, the risk that one person grows stronger feelings, that one person wants more than just FWB, the fallout when one gets a new "friend" and the other doesn't, the friendship revolves around sex and not what a freiendship should revolve around, the awkwardness for your friends when you have FWB and a boyfriend and we all hang out. Actually just the shit situation it ends up putting your friends in full stop. I've never had a FWB but I've had friends you have had one and it's pretty awkward for us but one in certain situations. Not to mention the basic premise of FWB is just like selling your body... It's "paying" someone to be your friend.
Green eye

Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?

Scarlett O'Hara because of her last line, "I'll go home. And I'll think of some way to get him back. After all... tomorrow is another day." I just adore her determination to get what she wants and that she grew as a person throughout the film and realized the difference between just the allusion of the perfect guy with Ashley that she thought she should want and Rhett Butler who was actually her perfect match. She changed while still remaining true to herself and kept her determination throughout everything.

Plus I used to live in that region of Georgia, so I have a more personal love of the film


As you Wish

Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?


I would say I am most like Hermione Granger. I always saw her as using her intelligence as a shield. And while in school I was the same way. I craved the adults in my life's approval and they took an interest in me because I was smart and I over achieved. Hermione is very much the same way. Not to mention how she used her mind to gain friends, such as always helping Ron and Harry with their assignments often just giving them the answers. In middle school I did the same thing with the "popular kids."

Eventually, Hermione grew into herself and didn't care so much about the approval of her peers. And became pretty kick ass.

So, apparently I also think of myself as pretty kick ass. Works for me.

Вопрос дня: Дружеский секс

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?

Чувства никто не отменял.. а значит в любом случае у кого они имеются,иначе бы не было секса,а если у кого-то имеются,значит ему больно,либо у обоих,тогда пора бы стать парой)

Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?

I'd say Raven Madison from vampire Kisses, or maybe Itachi from Naruto. The reason I see Raven as myself is cause we've loved vampires since the beginning of our live and we adore them with all are hearts.  Itachi and I have the same type of emotions which are none I tend to not have any sentimental feeling toward certain tragic events so we are some what alike. ^_^

Writer's Block: Life imitating art

Which movie or book character are you most like, and why?

I've been told Hermione from Harry Potter...because I'n rather book-ish. I've also been told I'm like Summer from 500 days of Summer (not sure if that's a compliment or...?!) and Margaret from The Proposal. 

I've posted this question on facebook, so maybe I'll get some interesting responses?!
Nerd

Writer's Block: FWB

FWB
Sure, the pros are obvious—but what are the cons of having a friend with benefits?


Ah, I would think they were pretty obvious too??????

The loss of friendship, the way everything changes, the risk that one person grows stronger feelings, that one person wants more than just FWB, the fallout when one gets a new "friend" and the other doesn't, the friendship revolves around sex and not what a freiendship should revolve around, the awkwardness for your friends when you have FWB and a boyfriend and we all hang out. Actually just the shit situation it ends up putting your friends in full stop. I've never had a FWB but I've had friends you have had one and it's pretty awkward for us but one in certain situations. Not to mention the basic premise of FWB is just like selling your body... It's "paying" someone to be your friend.