September 29th, 2011

Вопрос дня: Развесели меня

Что поднимает настроение, когда вам грустно?

В силу моей хронической кровожадности,повторю то,что уже неоднократно говорила - я веселюсь только тогда,когда вижу окровавленные трупы моих врагов.

Writer's Block: Internet addictions

Besides LJ, what websites are you always surfing?


I have a routine.
1st I check my mail.
2nd I check deviant art
3rd Live Journal
4th and final Facebook.

Everytime I go on the compter that is how it goes. Of course after fb I go to other places.
The only other websites that I go to regularly are dramafever.com, amazon,com, dramawiki, the weather channel, maybe viki,net. I think that is about it.

Writer's Block: Love hurts

Maybe there's not. A way. Everyone assumes that the bonds we form with one another are heart shaped. Sure, the idea is romantic, but I never imagined a heart could break. We live and breath for the these people that we give ourselves to so thoroughly, we exist in their brilliance and they in ours, we share and grow, we devote and love. Can something capable of such benign emotions be so easily sundered? People grow apart, couples drift and fight and learn to hate one another, the connections they've created snap, they fall out of love. In time that heals and they find the strength to do it all again, all because their heart, through all the sour days, remains intact and whole. So the best way to mend a heart? Forgive, and remember that nothing in this life or the next can break all that. That nothing can break you.
ангел

Вопрос дня: Развесели меня

Сменить настроение помогает работа по дому, связанная с водой - мытье полов, посуды, стирка.
До полной усталости.
Что поднимает настроение, когда вам грустно?

Writer's Block: Internet addictions

Besides LJ, what websites are you always surfing?

Sadly, since out of work, I've been watching Young & Restless, and reading blogs about the soap and how far the writing has gone downhill.
I've gotten so I can't stand Facebook, because the same people I didn't care for in school, are still bragging about themselves, and I just find it a big time-waster.  This is a far better use of my time! 
Ну это типа я с подругой)

Вопрос дня: Развесели меня

Музка в моих ушах. Чёрные наушники, телефон, джангол я слушаю и иду по дождю..
Когда я слушаю трек, который меня зацепил, я перемещаюсь в другую реальность и внутри себя я двигаюсь в такт с музыкой..хотя этих движений я не знаю совсем..Но это так классно.Дрож по телу, муражки, взрыв сердца и случайные непонятные движения..
ММмм такое ощущение..Ну вы знаете)

Вопрос дня: Развесели меня

Включи телевизор, выбери что-нибудь не смешное, но реальное, похожее на жизненные ситуации, минут через 10-15 точно будешь смеяться)
Не знаю, как это объяснить, но это получается!

Вопрос дня: Развесели меня

мне поднимает настроение глоток свежего воздуха, приятная музыка, хорошая книга  и собственные мысли о том, о чем мечтаю)))

наверное настроение становится лучше, когда рядом близкий человек, готовый слушать меня долго или просто молчать за компанию..

или когда птицы поутру поют, и солнце светит сквозь шторы, пробуждая к новому дню..

и конечно же, когда ты вдруг понимаешь,  грусть - это одно из связующих состояний между радостью и печалью, любовью и одиночеством, это пееходный период чувств, эмоций, дающий возможность понять, насколько прекрасно быть счастливых и ценить это!


от этих мыслей становится тепло на дуще!
michael

Writer's Block: Love hurts

What’s the best way to mend a broken heart?
There is no one way that works for everyone.  People deal with things in different ways.  Personally, I just try to forget about whatever - or, I suppose, whoever, -  broke my heart.  I do things that make me feel good - I eat a food I love but rarely get, I spend a few days just relaxing and reading one of my favorite books or marathon-ing an awesome show, I sleep in, etc.  Basically, I pamper myself.  It definitely makes me feel better.  But, like I said, everyone has their own ways of coping, since nothing works for everyone.  

Writer's Block: Love hurts

What’s the best way to mend a broken heart?


I have learned in life that the best antidotes for difficult seasons are not only having a relationship with Christ but also reaching out to others that are suffering. By getting the focus off of "us" and going beyond ourselves we not only impact the person but it also has a profound impact within ourself. Focus your eyes on Jesus and reach out to those in more dire situations. Be the answer to someone's prayer utilize your God given gifts. It definitely takes time though but it really helped me get through heart break by helping others..I volunteer with an organization. It makes me happy to help people..it's different for everyone but it took me 6 months to get over the worst of it. Just realize the pain won't always be there. I know that isn't really comforting but one day you will be fine again.
crow, megaman, main, bird

Writer's Block: Internet addictions

Besides LJ, what websites are you always surfing?


Other than my Gmail I frequent Facebook, Questionable Content(Webcomic) Deviant Art and
YouTube(lot's of different channels) And I've recently started
frequenting Twitter. Used to frequent Megatokyo and

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And
then over to some updates. I'm apparently making a habit out of not
updating, so since I'm too awake to sleep and got nothing better to than
watch "When Cheese Fails" on YouTube I might as well write something
here.

I went to the cinema a couple of weeks ago(I think) to see
Hodejegerene (The Headhunters) which is based on the novel of the same
name by Jo Nesbø. Now, the novel is one of the better norwegian ones I'v
read(actually I listened to the audiobook, but as far as I'm concerned
it's the same thing) and I was really looking forward to this movie
hoping that the film makers didn't screw it over. There was another
thing that worried me. The norweigan actor Aksel Hennie was cast as the
main character of this movie and I used to hate the guy. He's a decent
actor for minor supporting roles but not for lead ones. Or so I thought.
As it turns ot this movie gave me renewed faith in Aksen Hennie as an
actor and in norwegian action movies. This movie was beautifully put
together, and even if they changed a couple of things from the book, it
did not ruin the movie, just made the story a little easier to tell.
Over all, awesome. I give it 18 on a D20(because i'm a geek.)

Other
than that. School is going well. I recently copmpsed a ballad that I'm
actually quite pleased with as a practice assignment. I'll get some real
instruments and put together a version and post a link to it here when
it's done. Although I'll have to warn you. If you're not prepared to
hear me sing and think you're not gonna like it, don't listen to it. I'd
rather you skip it than complain about it later. I know I'm not a good
singer(there, I said it), but I needed a voice for the assignment and
the only one I at the time got was my own. And since I sang it first I'm
gonna sing it again.

I'll try to frequent this place with some
more posts instead of just lurking in the shadows and read others stuff
and not commenting in the future. And maybe do some commenting as well.
But as I've said before. If I don't comment it is because I don't feel I
have someting to say.

And now for the end credits:
<b>Script and everyhting else:</b>Dark Raven
hauyu pichu
  • eqfe

Writer's Block: Internet addictions

Besides LJ, what websites are you always surfing?


I usually start my day on the internet drinking a pot of coffee. I always hit Yahoo, for my email, the weather, and a quick check on the news, any one of which can take me in many directions. I'm on a lot of mailing lists, for sales and such. Then its FB usually to see what happened while I was sleeping, and again possible follow links posted by friends, then I'll go to blogspot, and scan the blogs I follow. These are on gardening, homesteading, bdsm, d/s, and nutrition. Again I could go in any direction with this.
golf course, golf trip, father and son

Writer's Block: Love hurts

What’s the best way to mend a broken heart?
The best way shoule be being alone for a while.

When you are alone, you will let yourself in peace and know exactly what you want to do. The best important thing is peace. Do not try to revenge or do something that is going to hurt yourself.

Stay peaceful. Then you will find yourself in love again later. And it is not a love between lovers but love for the this world.

Then you are OK.


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Writer's Block: Love hurts

What’s the best way to mend a broken heart?


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accordions
keyboard
guitar
I'm left handed, we'll never be
bee
[You]
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The
accordion is in my car. The keyboards i on the table. The guitar is on
the chair. The other is in the air. I'm right handed whee always have
been.
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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you're too golden
I don't get along with golden gods
I'm dark and always with the rituals
I'm a witch
everyone calls me jezebel
left handed, sinistral
accordions bust my heart though
and I know this isn't special
[You]
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But I think that it is
Oh to be a witch
Sweeping through the ditch
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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everyone hates me
[You]
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bleeding like a bitch
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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lilith, delilah
[You]
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smiling through the swell
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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succubus
[You]
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of lackluster spells of hell
Succubus A Singing Song
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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all of that
[You]
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A Song That I can't sing Along
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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I am this
[You]
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I'll follow you
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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I warned you
[You]
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Right through the ditch
To warn you now
My precious witch
You warn I wane
A bit Insane
I know this too.
It's in my name.
but oh to play
to play the game
I'll bounce upon the Fire Fox
And mix and match the mutten chops
Until the tour hits the end
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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I can't stop it once it starts
[You]
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In flower pots
I long to spend.
Why stop what starts
When you're shooting darts?
I'm only aiming for broken hearts.
smoking choking the laughing arts
rocking blocking and forming tarts
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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They say I'll eat you alive
[You]
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a sugary sweet and splendid thing
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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I ate him alive
[You]
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A Bun Like You?
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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and others
[You]
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That's for me to eat.
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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I didn't mean to
I don't mean it
[You]
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I'm not scared of your tiny teeth.
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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People think I do it on purpose
I can't help it
[You]
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My armor's thick
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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what can I do, I like tofu and curry
[You]
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You know what I mean.
You think that those things
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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and avoid red m.e.a.t.
[You]
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are something from what I scurry?
I'm curry and rice I am but prepared
Trust me now, darling
Of you, I'm not scared.
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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No one trusts me
[You]
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Why would they? I ask.
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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Because I steal
[You]
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I Lie and I Cheat
And I never
Say sorry or cry
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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steal steal steal what they cant see or touch but want to keep to themselves
[You]
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Or do nothing
Not ever!
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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and then it's my fault I'm just living
[You]
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I'm crazy I swear
But I'm more than prepared.
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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and I'm called devil and demon
[You]
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There's nothing from me that you shouldn't be stealin.
My hearts on the line.
Just follow the dots.
If A Grave is my home
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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I don't like stealing
[You]
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In a grave I will rot.
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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before I go
tell me something you want me to know
so I can dream
[You]
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I dream of the mending of soft broken hearts
With heroes and heroines with sharply combed arts
Of darts and the day dreams that wait in the sun.
Of the magical kingdom where we both long to run.
Past the stars of tomorrow and the din of the day
In the past with a witch in which we both spend our days.
the coal by the fire and the fir on your bag
the way that we laugh when they call you a hag.
all olden and golden and sugary sweet
with a heart made of tin and burning of heat
made to break down the doors of our faint ever after
I long for the next of our beautiful chapters.
So sleep well, my dear
Knowing all here is clear
And your eyes are not something that I ever could fear
Just close them shut now and pronounce in the dark
I love you, dear daylight
You're my favorite lark.
[Daniela Melina Villanueva]
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off I go
Thank you, write me a wake up story. Tell me things about we
byebye
bee
Daniela is typing...
[You]
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Of course, darling.
Sleep tight.
Let not the bed bugs bite.
I'll be awaiting your return.
as this cigarette burns.
Daniela is typing...
Pure

Writer's Block: Love hurts

I believe a truly broken heart doesn't mend. If the person you can't live without leaves, you can't live or breathe quite the way you used to. But for even the smallest scrapes to the once in a lifetime crack. . . Distance and time. Some people you can speak to after the passage of time. But the person who broke your heart? You always love them, and there's always this hollow feeling. It can't be filled in the same way. So you fill it with friends, good memories, and a life worth living. You'll love again, but never quite the way you did because you never quite mend. You just get better. There's no real mending of a broken heart. Just distance and time for some semblance of recovery

Writer's Block: Love hurts

What’s the best way to mend a broken heart?
As a human, I drank a lot and traveled. Some would say I ran away, but whatever. I'd party in some exotic place that wasn't Louisiana until I was drunk and fucked up enough to forget how bad my heart hurt. 

Last time... I ran. And I don't know how I'd get over a broken heart now. I don't have any way to drown it if it happens. So, let's hope Jack doesn't break me.
NOH8

Writer's Block: Love hurts

What’s the best way to mend a broken heart?

Hasn't this one been asked before? I have a sense of deja vu. The best way is to get out there and have fun. Just let loose and grab drinks with friends, or order in pizza and have a Disney movie night (or movie night of your choice). Rant and bitch and rage about the stupidity of relationships and how you're better off being single with ten cats with various names like Poogles and Sprinkles and Sir Charlie.

Writer's Block: Love hurts

What’s the best way to mend a broken heart?

    Mind your manners and sleep on the floor
There's no silhouette to admire anymore

Just the soft stain of (a) blanket you crawl to explore

And the mind you've been wasting's been waiting for more

      So the truth in the tangles outside this mirage

Will awaken the villain to the deafening barrage 

Of Maritime wisdom that seems to massage

Past the blankness to lay waste to this spinning visage 

      A cough keeps the crickets from speaking their mind

A clock it keeps ticking to remind of the time

      When the old orange glow from a friendlier smile

Can keep clicking and sticking a name to denial

      This ship I've been sailing is bound for the shore

The trip I've been taking won't last anymore

      But I'll stick to the borrowed and easy design

Of the mugger whose tale has been here all the while

I'm not angry I'm singing of the falsely accused 

    Who've been damaged and rotten past the sight of a bruise

I will weep when I'm angry and abuse the abused

      Just to fight past the feeling that I'm being amused

      Come water, come rain, come ten thousand storms

Bring the iron I'm lacking in through the doors

    o f A House I've no presence but the one I adore

Come the lantern, come searching, come looking for more

And I'm not the son of a wealthier man

        I  'm the Ghosts only daughter - your biggest of fans

Not the one who can turn to a new set of plans

        I'm the Ghost of your daughter and I come to demand

The wealth of your nation - To spit in your face

To lie through your gardeners to get through the gates

I'll be smiling while dancing within your estate

While you push past and argue through political debates

      Well the silence in caring is worse than the fool

Who admires or disbars the things that you do

  There's no absence in abscessed proprietal claims

        There's no arguing blindly through monetary gains

    And I've wept through the windows a ten floor abode

Called a space on cement my newly found home

      I read letters from space vets from a war I don't know

I've claimed six thousand gypsies taught me to grow

But I know there's no truth in the lies that I speak

      I promise no mercy for the brave nor the meek

I just shuttle the wayfaring man on his feet 

      To the place where I shudder and admit my defeat

I've been rambling and raising from what I can tell

      For two years or more the great story of Hell 

and if you don't catch the grace in this magickal spell

    Well then I can't exchange what I cannot sell

Let fires and tragedy ignite in my fright

    The pompousness found in admitting I'm right.

Goodnight.

Sincerely,
Ryan Tyler Nelson-Stretch
Oraiian Storatsu
Oyasumi
Nasai
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  • heyjj24

Writer's Block: Love hurts

What’s the best way to mend a broken heart?
To mend a broken heart, you have to get very busy with work or study, or get a new hobby that will keep you very busy. Tire yourself, physically and mentally, so much you'd go home just thinking of getting some sleep, and that you'd have less time to think about the cause of your heartbreak. Avoid staying at home or being alone most of the time. As much as possible, be around people, even though you are an introvert, because you'd be forced to talk and mingle with them. Thus, you'd have less time to think about your own pain, and that they can probably give you an inspirational advice or cheer you up. On the weekends, go out with your friends. Meet new people and make new friends. Watch funny movies and laugh hard. Try new sports or go on an adventure trip. Sing with your friends in a karaoke bar or go to a singles-only party. Don't force yourself to be in a relationship again when you haven't yet recovered from a heartbreak. And when you are finally alone all by yourself, let go of all your emotions in writing, painting, or any creative stuff, even if you are crying while you are doing them. Convert your negative emotions to anything productive. Learn to accept that you don't always get what you want, and that the person who broke you heart is not the one for you. Let time heal all your wounds, but don't feel miserable all the time. And always remember that all people experience heartbreaks. You are not alone in this world.
  • lizok96

Вопрос дня: Развесели меня

Когда грустно, мне довольно сложно вернутся в "Нормальное" состояние. Хотя немного радуют искренние слова, тёплые улыбки, готовность выслушать меня, понять причины моей грусти. Также немного поднять настроение может еда-особенно что-нибудь вкусненькой. А уж если всем пофиг по какой-либо причине все заняты\не звонят\не предлагают шоколадку на худой конец "статусы вконтакте" или бодрая музычка.
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  • hanuma

Вопрос дня: Развесели меня

Что поднимает настроение, когда вам грустно?


Общение с уникальным и интересным человеком, мало похожим на меня. Если ему (ей) удалось меня удивить и пробудить мою любопытство, то всё, на фоне этих двух чувств - любые другие чувства начинают просто меркнуть и выцветать..
Stevie Nicks

Writer's Block: Love hurts

What’s the best way to mend a broken heart?


The first 45-60 minutes in surgery are used to prepare you for the actual operation. An anesthetic will be administered. After you are asleep, a breathing tube will be inserted and you will be connected to a respirator. A stomach tube will be inserted and attached to suction to remove excess stomach juices and acids. A bladder catheter will be inserted to empty your bladder and measure urinary output.

A Central I.V. Line (CVC) will be inserted in your neck to replace the I.V. in your hand. An arterial line will be placed in your wrist to measure blood pressure. You will have chest electrodes placed on your skin to monitor your heart rhythm.

Once you are in a deep sleep, the breastbone (sternum) is cut and separated. If you are having coronary artery bypass grafting, the doctor will decide the location from which to take your grafts. He or she may use your internal thoracic artery in your chest, which can be isolated and brought down for one or more of the bypass grafts. The rest of the grafting material will come from the saphenous vein in your leg. You will have leg incisions where the vein(s) was removed, which will be held closed by stitches.

During your surgery, the heart-lung machine provides circulatory support to the major organs. After the blockages are bypassed, or the valve is replaced or repaired, you will be taken off the heart-lung machine.

Your sternum will be closed and fastened with stainless steel wires which will stay in your chest. Your chest incision will be closed with sutures. Tubes will be placed in your chest to drain the cavity of normal post-operative bleeding.

Shortly after this, you will be brought up to the Critical Care Unit, where you will stay one or two days; then you will move to 2 West where you will stay until discharge. The total stay is usually four to seven days for bypass and possibly a little longer for a valve procedure.

Heart-Lung Machine

During your surgery, the heart-lung machine provides circulatory support to the major organs. After the blockages are bypassed, or the valve is replaced or repaired, you will be taken off the heart-lung machine.
  • skoalac

Writer's Block: Love hurts

What’s the best way to mend a broken heart?
The best way to mend a broken heart is to take care of yourself. Start pampering yourself.. take a hot shower, get your hair done, dress to impress. The better and more confident you feel about yourself, the more you'll realize that you're better off without someone who hurts you. You deserve better! I'm not saying that being pretty is the only reason to be happy, I'm saying that FEELING beautiful and taken care of does wonders for you when you're feeling down. :)

Вопрос дня: Развесели меня

Что поднимает настроение, когда вам грустно?
Ничего. Я научился превращать леденцы в изумруды, но меня это не радует, потому что у меня депрессия, депрессия, депрессия. 

Writer's Block: Love Hurts

What’s the best way to mend a broken heart?
Eat a tub of ice cream and watch cheesy romance movies and cry your heart out. 
No I'm totally kidding. There is no real solution, give yourself time to mourn, cry a lot and let yourself get angry. Distance yourself from that person, try and be really busy to take your mind off things and in the end just let them go.
Forgive and forget.
"My plan is to forgive and forget. Forgive myself for being stupid, and forget you ever existed."